Laugh. A Lot
Take a second right now and think of the funniest joke or story you
know. It is okay to laugh out loud right now as you remember it. How does
laughing right now make you feel? That's what I thought. Laughter is the
best medicine.
Norman Cousins' book, Anatomy of an Illness, was on the New York Times
best-seller list for forty weeks when it was first published in 1979. It
is still in print and its twin central messages are just as important
today as they were when I read it during my own experience with cancer in
1981.
The first major message of the book is Cousins' own story of taking
personal responsibility for his own recovery. (Think about the literal
meaning of the word responsibility: it means the ability to respond). You
might say that is the main message of this book, too the idea that you
have within you the incredible power to focus your energies and
determination on recovery and health.
The second message of Anatomy of an Illness is what made it a
best-seller and what keeps it selling today. Cousins was the man who first
popularized the idea with the general public, as well as the medical
community, of the healing power of laughter.
In 1964, Cousins had contracted an illness which his doctors were
unable to properly diagnose and which appeared to be killing him. What he
did, instead of waiting in his hospital room to slowly die, was to check
into a New York City hotel and watch funny movies and TV shows! (I might
add that he did this with the blessing of his doctor, who knew that
Cousins needed something more than clinical treatment for what he was
suffering from). Cousins found that ten minutes of good, solid belly
laughter yielded up to two hours of pain-free sleep or rest. He was taking
advantage of something which is now generally recognized by medical
science, that laughter causes a physiological change in the brain, causing
it to release endorphins, which are drug- like chemicals that give us a
feeling of satisfaction and pleasure.
The opposite of the laughter effect is the harmful result of stress,
worry and tension. Negative emotions can cause very real physical
reactions such as stomach ulcers. My dad was in a business that took its
toll on his nerves around the time I was seven or eight years old. I
thought for years that when you grew up your major foods were Maalox and
Cream of Wheat!
Cousins' favorite films were old Marx Brothers comedies. He also
watched tapes of old Candid Camera shows. When I was in the hospital in
1981, I remember watching a television show that made me laugh so hard it
hurt my stitches. I can't remember the name of the show, but it was a
super hero fantasy with a guy who had the right idea but hadn't quite
learned the ropes: he kept flying into buildings and he never landed in
the right place.
The third Overcoming Tool is as simple as it is important, perhaps
crucial to your recovery: Laugh. A lot! And I mean laugh. I don't know
what kind of movies or TV shows (or joke books or magazines or comics)
really make you laugh, but whatever they are, I want you to consider this
tool a prescription for a daily dose of as much laughing as you can
handle.
If you haven't seen any really funny movies lately, allow me to suggest
some of my personal favorites. All of the Pink Panther films with Peter
Sellers are funny. Steve Martin is terrific in All of Me. Spaceballs,
Naked Gun and Naked Gun 2 « all make me laugh so hard, I can't eat or
drink anything while I'm watching them! Some of my other surefire
favorites are and the Airplane, Hot Shots, Young Frankenstein, Blazing
Saddles Vacation movies with Chevy Chase. These may not be the cinematic
classics of our day, but they are guaranteed to bring peals of belly
laughter out of me!
Of course, laughter is important for everyone, with or without a
serious illness. I wonder sometimes if a lot of people don't actually make
themselves sick because of the lack of laughter in their lives.
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